Day 09

A picture of the person who has gotten you through the most.

Without a doubt, my lovely father. I'm not going to say I have a favorite parent, that's just not right. But I can say that I'm definitely closer to my dad. I think part of the reason is because we're so similar. It's actually kind of freaky. We both have this strong sense of right and wrong. And if we don't do what's "right" we feel intense guilt. He always knows if something's bothering me. He also knows me well enough to know when I want to talk about it and when I don't. Which I think is really important. When I don't want to talk about something I tend to become very obstinate and defensive. But whenever I go to him about anything he always know exactly what to say. When my gramma died this past winter it was hard for everyone, especially him. That's really the first time I've ever seen my dad get really upset. [I was too young to remember when my grandpa died.] I'd like to think we helped each other through it. By helping me through so many things in my past he's also shown me how to help others.

Letter

Dear Dad,

There are so many reasons that you're my hero. One of the main reasons: you never quit.When you lost your job it was horrible, but you never let it get you down. Even after six months, after looking for so long and not getting so far, you nefver give up. You keep going. And it amazes me that you can always be so optimistic about everything. I really don't know how you do it. Most importantly I want to thank you for never giving up on me. No matter how mean or ungrateful I can be you're always ready to forgive and forget. Even if I don't exactly apologize. I know it seems hard right now, but I know you'll find a job. You never let bad things change your positive outlook.

Love, You Daughter
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